After years of marriage have difficulties with husband's family dependency on him. He is the eldest of 5 brothers.
<br>I am the foreigner in the family in my own country.
<br>When they are together I am the "odd" duck. They don't speak english.
<br>Conclusion is: Husband feels i am rejecting his family/friends. Since he is the eldest we are expected to always be the hostess. But since I don't feel apart of their converstations and thinking. I don't invite. I do tell my husband to go be with them.
<br>But seems to cause a separation of interests.
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