I was married to the father of my 2 children for 13 years. Although things were not perfect, we did have a very close relationship most of the time.
<p>About 12 years into the marriage things began to change. We didn't get along very well. At the time I didn't understand why. Our arguments became constant. But I later learned (after we split up) that my husband was having an affair.
<p>Anyway, we divorced. My first relationship was my rebound relationship. I married my rebound relationship. Now I am in a very unhappy marriage, my ex-husband is trying to get me to leave my present husband and come back with him. I do feel that we could be happy together again, we feel that he knows, and I know what happened, and can fix what went wrong before.
<p>As I said my present marriage is much less than perfect. We've gone to counseling through the church. Nothing works for very long. Should I go with the man I love, or honor my marriage vows and stay in an unhappy home?
<p>In response keep in mind,a reconcile with my ex would mean my children having their family back together.
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