<p>I have been maried for 6 years to my wife and we have 2 kids 1 and 3.We were separted for 2 months a year ago and have been trying to work things out. We just had one of our best summers together as a family ant then I screwed up again
<br>Now We are in the first stages of divorce, that I don't want.
<br>I found an E mail message to one of her girlfriends that she had found a apt. and was moving out that weekend, so I filed for divorce that same day out of anger.
<br>Now 2 weeks have gone by she has taken all the kids clothes and all her property.
<br> We have had many talks about what is going on and how hurt and sad we both are (I still love her very much and I know she still loves me )But there is no trust left
<p>Now my question
<br>I told her how much I love her and want her back and she understands how I feel and she has told me she has built a wall around her to protect her from getting hurt again and that she needs time and space. I now have a ray of hope To prove myself to her how much I love her and I will never mislead or lie to her again. I no that we can work through this and she has agreed to see our counsler without me present to tell her side. she also informed me that she wants the divorce to go through even if things realy improve and we work it through this.
<br>I don't understand why she would want a divorce to be final and then continue to work on our marriage or remarrige
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GO TO COUNSELLING!!! That's the only way you will be able to figure it out. Make sure that you're comfortable with the person you will be consulting. It makes it much easier. Take care and good luck.
<p>Juli :-)