\<BR> I am a 3 tine looser with the same OW.My wife is ready fo r a divorce.I do understad but I am asking that you will pray that my heart be cleared of the OW and tht GOd will save our marriage. I have lost my abilty to pray but i love my wife deely pray for me<BR> change back to the husband that I was in the past.<BR>

LOST 123<P>I can always offer prayers and a big welcome. All is not lost. You can get thru this and away from the OW. But you need to be very strong and need support. That's where this forum comes in. <P>If you haven't already, read everything here that you can. Then post some more with a little more background info so we can help better. But in order for your marriage to survive, you need to STOP all contact with the OW!! <P>(((((HUGS)))))<BR>Mitzi

Hi Lost123 -<P>You need prayers....you got 'em!!!<P>I am so glad that you have found MB and posted for some help.....if you let us - we will help you end that "losing" streak you've got going on!!!<P>Have you read around here yet? If not take a look at the MB principles and find out what has contributed to this nightmare you have found yourself in. It's nothing that can't be rebuilt if you choose to pull up your shirtsleeves and really get to work with some soul searching....do you want to heal? Do you want to have a better marriage and a happy, enriching relationship with your wife?<P>You must if you have come here, so open up some and tell us what you've got going on in that head of yours!! We will help sort it out and help with your Wife and both of your healing processes.<P>Big Hugs for taking this step,<P>Sheba<p>[This message has been edited by Sheba (edited April 04, 2000).]