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My husband and I have been seeing each other for about 4 weeks now, we separated 5 months ago. He has told me that he needs to be able to feel it in his heart. We love each other very much, he says he is not in love with me now. He tells me he wants to get that back. I can't begin to tell you how my heart ached when he said he wasn't in love with me anymore, although I knew that, but hearing it was a killer. And when he said he wants to fall in love with me again my heart began to soar. I feel myself falling in love with him more each day. What can I do to help the process along? I know it takes time, but I guess I need reassurance that I am doing the things that will down the path to sweetness again. I would really be thankful for any ideas. <p>Juli
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All you can be is yourself. He fell in love with you once. He will again! Give him unconditional love! Do things for him - without expecting anything in return! What you will find - is you will feel more in love with him because of you actions! It will make you feel good! If you feel good, you will make everyone around you feel good! Your husband will see you as the woman he fell in love with! This is my opinion - I hope it helps! Good Luck!! <p>Ken W.
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<br> Your sort of in a catch 22, if your there for every beck and call and do everything for him you could fall deeper in love as KenW pointed out but you dont have the problem with the feelings he does. In my humble opion dont be so available to him he knows he can have you when ever he wants. Allways let him ask you out and once in a while tell him you have plans but how about another time. Poeple want what they cant have, I'm sure you know this. When he calls limit your time to 10 minuts or so and politly end the conversation. The thing is he all ready knows what he has and you dont. As hard as it may be to play a little hard to get I'm sure it will go a long way to him wanting you. I'm sure the phone will ring more frequently and so will the dates if you pull back just a bit. KenS
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