On Sat as x was picking up the kids, I reminded her that the kids wanted to come home on Easter to go to church. She remembered!!! I asked her when did she want them back, right after church or later. <P>She said it didn't matter. I asked if she was planning a big dinner. She said no, she cooked a meal last night and would probably have hamburgers on the grill tonite so it didn't matter what time I brought them back , after all this was her weekend. She didn't seem to care one way or the other.<P><BR>Then today, I informed her I would be going out of town Tues-Thurs and had hired a young(too ) woman to watch the kids those nites.<P>X acted like why was I calling her and bothering her about that. I thought she would squack about me not going out when she could watch the kids.<P>X also told my son she wouldn't buy him any more toy guns because it made me mad. I wasn't mad about the toys, it was the fact that he got something everytime he was with her. She conviently missed that point.<P>I hope I'm not doing that too, at least I say no every once in a while .<P>------------------<BR>"You can't always get what you want! But if you try real hard,you might just find, you get what you need!"<BR>Mick Jagger

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