Has anyone here had a problem with a spouse not being sure of their sexual orientation?

Go to the general questions section of the Infidelity board. Read the string "This is a strange one"<P>The short answer is yes. But read the string.

If you search, there are more as well, a bit less complicated than the situation just mentioned. Search for posts by Alex1, just as an example. <P>Good luck.<P>Lori

I don't have one, but I know one. And I'll give you one piece of advise: NO LOVEBUSTERS. Your spouse is going through a tough time. You must be prepared for the possibility that your spouse is either bi or gay, and if that happens, and the marriage can't be saved, the best course is an AMICABLE split, especially if there are children involved.<P>And that's all I can say about it, I'm afraid.

<small>[ January 26, 2005, 07:24 PM: Message edited by: hanora ]</small>

Thanks, Hanora - I have no memory at all!!! <P>lori

<small>[ January 26, 2005, 07:25 PM: Message edited by: hanora ]</small>

<B>Alex1 reporting for duty, Ma'am!</B><P>Now seriously, 2down:<P>I read your story in your posts from today. Maybe your husband IS confused. I won't tell you my story, just click on the glasses icon and you'll find the Reader's Digest version.<P>My wife's OP (or OW- I can handle this term now) recently published (local paper) a theory describing some chemical imbalances that may make people gay; others like Wilhelm Reich (a disciple of Freud) believe that homosexuality is based on fear of being heterosexual born from the identification with the parent of the opposite sex; if any of these theories were true then homosexuality is "curable": in fact Elsworth F. Baker (disciple of Reich) believes that it is possible to bring a homosexual/lesbian back to "normal" <B>IF</B> he/she wants to, but that usually homosexuals and lesbians attend therapy only to work on problems derived from society's rejection.<P>OK, enough lecture. If you want to learn about homosexuality this is not the right site for that (I don't know which one is either- when you do please let me know); if you want to rebuild your marriage you are at the right place but at the wrong forum- go to <B>General Questions</B> or <B>Plan A / Plan B</B> at the <B>Infidelity Forums</B>. IF finally you have given up on your relationship and want to grow stay right here (and also check on other pages in this web site). The divorce forum has just began, we don't have yet a moderator and the place doesn't have a steady pace as yet- it's the right moment to make it exactly what you want.<P>Hang in there. Keep posting and replying, and above all, read as much material from this site as you can, it'll help you to grow with or without him, in this or in any other relationship in the future, which by the way is all yours!<P>Alex<P>------------------<BR><B>Live fully and always learn</B>