My H came home today to pick up his car. I picked him up at the airport and I noticed that he has taken off his wedding ring. He is a graduate of Texas A&M and lost his Aggie ring several years ago. I ordered a replacement ring last December and gave the ring to him on April 12. I noticed today that his Aggie ring has replaced his wedding ring. Once, a long, long time ago, I told him that it was OK to wear his Aggie Ring as his wedding ring, but at that time, I didn't think that he would wait until we were in divorce limbo to make the switch.<P>He asked my sister if she hated him and told her that he is a good person. She told him that it was not up to her to judge his actions. He is constantly trying to convince everyone that this is a cut and dry situation. He is just out of love and needs to move on. I've never told him that I hated him. I've always told him that my love unconditional. His actions may disappoint me and may bring me to anger, but I still love the good person inside him. I wish he could understand this.<P>Why is it that people have so much trouble accepting unconditional love? It's not so hard. All I have ever asked him to do is to <BR>always do what is best for both of us and for our family (meaning parents, siblings - no kids). I've given him my faith and trust. In fact I gave him so much trust and that he hung himself with his freedom.<P>OK, I know I am not expressing the amount of pain that I feel. It's just not my way. But trust me, I feel like that there is knife in my back and everytime I see my H, he twists it just a little more.<P>Just another day in pre-divorce limbo (aka Hell)<P>Karel <P>