I might be pregnant. I did the test on Saturday and got a faint positive. My period is not due until Friday.<P>I'm excited about this. I believe that my husband will be too. But am I doing the right thing bringing another child into this relationship.<P>We still don't know if the OW is really pregnant and if it is his. She is due Dec. 3rd.<P>I am just so confused, excited, and overwhelmed.<P>Thanks

well, whether it is the "right" thing or not, you do everything in your power to take care of yourself. (im due 10-9, and the doctors are giving me heck aobut not gaining enough weight!)<BR>does your H know? what does he think?

No I haven't told him yet. I want to be totally sure first before I gave us both false hope.<P>I'm trying to think of a creative way to tell him. Like sending him a pink and blue carnation, but don't know what to put on the card.<P>I was thinking something like, "Whether I'm pink or blue, I can't wait to meet you in May".<P>

Hubby just called from work (doing OT again). And asked me if there was something I had to tell him. I wonder if he knows. I have the test hidden inside the towels in the closet. <P>So I don't think that he saw it. The only thing I can think of is he might have seen the box. <P>Oh, well. I won't say anything until I know for sure.<P>

i'm pregnant too. the ow just had her baby and my h will have the dna test in a few weeks. it is very hard, and exciting and hopeful and full of despair. it is good to know i'm not the only one in this crazy situation. my h is overjoyed, i'm still scared. is it bad to bring a baby into this delicate situation? well, i believe it is pointless to even ask, (although for me it is unavoidable to wonder and debate in my head). that precious child is here and i believe God has a plan for me and I know He does for him/her. i like the flower idea - good for you to bring joy into it all!! <BR>(keep me posted at _newfriend1@excite.com )

I woke up in the middle of the night and prayed for you, and i thought of this to put on the card with the flowers: "April showers bring May flowers...our love is blooming!!!".<BR>ok it sounds dumb now, but it sounded really profound at 3am!!

dear hubby,<P>C O N G R A T U L A T I O N S ! ! ! ! !<P> I am so very excited for you. You revel in this special time for you and your husband and don't allow anyone to take the joy out of this for the both of you. This is a blessing from God and you should both be celebrating!!!!<P>If really doesn't matter is OW is really pregnant or not because your H is home with YOU taking care of YOU and helping you through your (possible) pregnancy. All of the intimate and special times to come are ahead. Cherish these time. My last preganancy was like a nightmare!!! I wish I could do it all over again. But my daughter is the most wonderful thing in the world and she makes me sooo happy...<P>God's blessings upon you. Take Care!<P>------------------<BR>Luv, Liza<P>Never fear, because God walks right beside you, and if you get tired, he will lift you up and carry you.

I know that hubby is home with me and taking care of me. But if this woman is pregnant with his child, she will be in our lives forever.<P>This child will always be a reminder of what he did to me.<P>

My hubby,<P>I am sorry. I did not mean to be insensitive. I fully understand your situation because it is mine. What I mean to say is, I know that this woman will forever be in your life and that the child will always be a reminder, but she will only be in your life as much as you and your H let her. If paternity is proven, my H will only offer OUR support in $$$ alone. He will not be a father figure to the child. We have two daughters. And we will continue to live as we always have. The OW knew about me and my kids when she decided to pursue an affair with my H. (Of course he did hid part too) But I mean what did she think was going to happen if she got Pregnant? Did she think that he would divorce me and the children? I think not. She had best realize that at the most, she was used at a time when we were having AWFUL problems in our marriage. (I am not trying to be naive about the affair either. My H was a weak man to involve himself with her. IT is not easy to live with him in our marriage without focusing on it day in and day out. But I do the best I can. I pray and ask God for his help. I know that after a while, everything will be alright.<P>You try to stay strong and take it easy. Try to stop worrying about OW and worry about your unborn child. You need your strength for a healthy pregnancy. You have my prayers.<BR><P>------------------<BR>Luv, Liza<P>Never fear, because God walks right beside you, and if you get tired, he will lift you up and carry you.