OK I talked to H to tell him what was going on with me. I told him that I didn't know what I want and he got upset. I did tell him not to give up and we would try to work things out. Now he is acting like everything is just peachy keen and it is really starting to get my goat!! I don't know what to say to him that nothing has really changed. Someone help me!!!! Last time I posted something here I got only one reply and I really need some help with this!!!!!!<p>[This message has been edited by tawni (edited April 30, 2000).]

I am sorry that you are on this forum and that you have had so little help. I have brought the post "Help" by NSR to the top...please read it and use the information to see if it helps you. This gives very good welcome advice, but NSR is away.<P>You might also find more response if you post on the "general" question forum as the traffic is heavier.<P>I would like to help you but would need more information about your particular circumstances.<BR>How long have you been married? Are either you or H involved with someone else?Do you have children?<P>I also live in Canada and can perhaps help you with resources. Have you spoken to your pastor?<P>Please do not make any hurried decisions which might very well be regretted later.<BR>Vent here and seek advice....we will do our best to answer. The weekends are very slow as well I have found.<P>Take care of yourself and all your loved ones<p>[This message has been edited by willbok99 (edited April 29, 2000).]