This is not marriage related at all, but you all have offered such comfort and wonderful words of advice to me in my marital crisis (H leaving, having an affair) that I wanted to share this newest sorrow with you ... I hope no one minds...
<p>Today I found out that my very close friend and confidant, a woman I had worked with for five years, whose Methodist minister husband had been transferred to Long Island NY from our small upstate NY community, was killed in a car accident. She was the most giving, caring and wonderful person I have ever known and is one of the few people who understood why I have to deal with my marital situation in the manner in which I am...
<p>My heart is broken into little tiny pieces ... and I feel such pain for her husband and two sons (one of whom was in the car with her, but is not seriously injured). I am feeling like the weight of the world is on my shoulders tonight, even though I know the pain of her family is far more than mine ...
<p>Why do bad things happen to good people???
<p>terri

oh terri,my heart goes out to her and her family!!!! l so understand how you feel about bad things happening to good people. She will be in my prayers.........

Terri,
<br>I read about the tragedy this morning. It was an awful and freak accident that cost 3 lives.
<br>Unfortunately, there is no answer we can understand to your question regarding good people.
<br>I am very sorry for your loss.

Bill, please email me with any information about the accident that you can... we haven't heard many details, and for some reason it seems important to know them...<br>Tenth_Insight@hotmail.com<p>[This message has been edited by terri (edited 02-11-99).]