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I got some good advice that might help others decide what is the right thing to do for them. We all spend so much time thinking about the kids, the family, the whatever, that we often lose sight of ourselves.<P>Well, my counselor asked me, "In an ideal world, how would you like this to turn out?" That didn't give me a visual, but when I came across the question of, "If you had a million dollars, what would you do?" I had complete freedom to imagine my life the way I wanted it to be. The vision doesn't have to do with money, but freedom. What is in your heart? Asking myself that question helped me to find that. I hope it helps some of you too.

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We must have the same therapist. He just asked me the same question.<P>One of my major roles is a caretaker. I want everyone arround me to have what they need. I also want to protect. Sometimes to my detriment. So it is very hard for me to look and see what I want. I'm still thinking.<P>Good Luck on your journey.


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