We have been married now for four months now, although we have lived together for four years. Our
<br>relationship is wonderful as long as there is not any conflict. I can't seem to communicate in a way
<br>that he understands me when we have a disagreement or a misunderstanding. I always feel, because of
<br>his actions and tone of voice at these times, that I am in the wrong. Where, the way I see it is neither
<br>one of us were in the wrong...I was just in the dark and didn't know what he had planned. What can I
<br>do? I've tried talking, but that just leads to silence and more anger from him and more frustration
<br>from me. And when I get angry I tend to cry easy, I slam doors...I never hit. I thought about writing,
<br>but don't know if that would convey my true feelings either. I need suggestions ASAP.
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