Just wondered how you are doing? How's the preg. going?<P>Hugs--<P>Kathi

Kathi,<P>Hey I know I haven't been here for awhile, not since April I believe. Things are going I guess. I'm now 3 & 1/2 months. I got to hear the heartbeat and see an ultrasound picture of my baby, so I'm getting a little excited. <P>As far as my H. A month ago he told me to get off his @ss. SOOOOO I don't call unless I need to about our little girl or finances. He's started to call a little more frequent. So when he does I'm civil and I don't LB. He's been on a leave for a little over a week and last night was his first overnight visit in awhile. I tried to Plan A as muh as I could. <P>He's still here in fact, just in the shower. I made breakfast for him, but I'm still not all that talkative. I really don't know what to say. Kathi, I'm trying and I've decided to hold on to my marriage.<P>He has to report to his new duty station in Fl by July 31st. So I have I lot of mixed emotions. However, I'm remaining strong for my health, my unborn's health and the sanity of my little girl <P>Where do we go from here? I really don't know. But with the help God I will make it through this whatever he decides. He still can file when he gets to Fl. Right now we haven't discussed the divorce, but I let him know that I didn't expect for things to chance because of the baby. He said we needed to talk, but he needed more time to think. I just said okay! (ughhh, he's had two yrs to think ) We have made an agreement that he will assist me in giving me 500 dollars a month. It was his decision, but I think it's fair. <P>Hmmm, what else? I'm still working regular duties at work right now. I'm not showing much at all. I figure I'll go on light duty in another month.<P>Kathi, I love him. I love him so much.<BR> <BR>Thanks for checking up on me. I've gotten a few emails from a few others here at MB, and I really appreciate it. Thanks for the hugs too. <P><BR>------------------<BR>"If you can learn from the mistakes of others, you won't have to make them youself."<P>lady_divine77@yahoo.com<p>[This message has been edited by jamie-lee (edited June 06, 2000).]

Sooooo glad to hear from you!!!<P>{{{{{{{{{{{{{{jamie-lee}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}<P>I'm glad you are staying strong and healthy...pretty cool hearing that heartbeat, huh?<P>Guess your H is a slow thinker...well, maybe that is good. I always think things should resolve FASTER, but I'm learning that God does indeed have a very different view of time...<P>Hang in there!!!<P>Kathi<P>

Hope it's okay to jump in...<P>Jamie-lee... big hugs to you sweetie! <P>I know it's the most difficult time to be pregnant... but oh! what a gift...<P>Love you, Sheryl<P><waves to Kathi too! >