Thank you for all your replies. It's comforting to know there are others out there who care. So many things have happened in the past 48 hours. I found out that he has still been seeing the other woman while we were together. I gave him the ultimatum of cutting ties with her or loosing me. It was very very very hard. But I can't be second best. He said he understood my point and we decided that he would make a decision on what route he will take to make a choice about what he wants. He has to do this in the very near future. My God this is absolutely horrible. I feel so bad.
<p>I'm sorry to say that I have to agree with you about your not leaving. I think you should have asked her to leave if she was so unhappy. But hindsight is 20/20. I just hope that you can enjoy your children and eventually find happiness inside yourself. Thank you so much for your support. Please feel free to email me at ISISHECATE@aol.com if you like.
<p>Juli

Juli,
<br> As I understand it as far as my situation it may take up to 2 years for my wife to figure out what she wants. So if my math is right its only 11 months away. I will look for you on line and IM you if I see you. Get in touch if you need support KCShields@aol.com
<br> Ken