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Hope someone can shed light on this...I met a gal and we spoke extensivly on the phone for a week & then had our first date over a week ago. The date went really well, great chemistry, lots of laughs, yada yada. We went back to my place and proceeded to "play" Not all the way, but pretty far for date numero uno. Very far, but not all the way, lets say...She left abruptly rather early and said she had to leave. I said ok I'd call and have three times since in the last 10 days. No response. What's up with that? Is she embarrased, think I'm a jerk, think she's a jerk? I'm mystified. I'm 28, she's 25. This is high school stuff. Any thoughts? Thx. Tom
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Carol, <br>thx for the reply. Those are good thoughts. No, I don't know if she's married. I doubt it though. She gave me her home # & I've since left several messages. In light of the possibility that she's scared, of intimacy, should I A) let off the gas? B) Step on the gas & call her again in a week. c) Send her a check for services rendered ( kidding ) <br>Tom <br>P.s. I didn't see any fear that night nor were there ANY stop signs. If anyone were scared...It was me.... ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif)
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Several circumstances come to mind:
<br>She may be involved in or ending a relationship. She may either feel guilty or if its over for her, intimacy shortly after a break up can still stir up some emotions.
<br>If she hasn't called you back in 10 days I would file her in the back of your mind. She seems to have some issues. Good luck.
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She thought you were handsome<br>and went out with you-<br>Then she really got to thinking, maybe I'd like to have sex with him(during the playing around)<br>Then she stopped b/c----------<br>1.)She had gotton pregnant as a teen and all the sudden it flashed back at her and if she returns your calls, she may feel you want to pick up where you left off....Hmmmmmm<br>2.)She is dating someone else and thought it wouldnt hurt to go out with you and then realized she really wants to be with the other guy and finds it easier to brush you off than to answer you...<br>Just some suggestions...I would file her also and look some more. There is a woman out there with your name written on her!!
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Trent and Dawn,<br>Great responses. I would have to agree w/Dawn on #2. Probably another guy...Ms. Guilty probably just has stud #2 waiting in the wings...Funny thing is, most of the time women worry about a man not calling after a one night stand, or a heavy 1st date. I feel so used... ( smirk )<br>Thanks.
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hey, look around the house, maybe something is missing
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