Well guys, I have not posted for awhile. I was trying to wrap up end of year activities with kids at school, working and planning a graduation party for my oldest daughter.<BR>H was being the usual idiot and was kinda helping but still very involved with himself. I was a nervous wreak since D wanted a BBQ after graduation and H family and my family and friends would be there. <BR>I almost killed myself (my parents helped) to clean house, do yard work ect to get ready for the party.<BR>Like I said H was the idiot and was going to buy the meat, charcoal and do the BBQing. (note that my parents have not seen or spoken to him since discovery day 8 months ago) He drops by the house informs me what he is buying for party. I asked if we could go together and buy our stuff and he did not want to.....FINE. I can go to store by myself.<BR>ANYWAY, later that night around midnight, I get a phone call.....H is on the phone. His retina just tore from his eye and he has to have emergency surgery the next day on D's graduation. To top it of he wants me to take him to the hospital, and take care of him afterward. Me, the always forgiving wife, says fine.....<BR>I take him to hospital, then come back and do graduation (D had 660 in her graduation class) BBQ and clean up. I go see him at hospital and he is on the phone to some gal he meet off the internet. grrrrrr<P>But still I am ready to take him home ect.....So for the next 4 days I have taken care of him.....cooked ect....and he sneaks off every night and takes a walk with his cell phone to talk to this gal.<P>So this morning I lost it when he said he needed to get away to heal.....I told him I was doing everything......and was he going to see his little friend ect....<BR>Big fight...so now he is gone to who knows where.....and I am here again taking care of the kids with no help from him.......he has lost his mind......among other things.<P>So here I am venting and giving you a brief update on me......<P>My first trail date is the 27 th of this month, but it looks like it will be postponed due to scheduling. So anyway.....I have been lurking and reading...I will start repsonding again to post....<P>I love the dateing thread....I need a date...looks like Murph is taken so maybe RWD is available....LOL
