I don't get it! I have been to therapy for ages due to his infidelities..now that he wants to "recover" he is having the time of his life...everyone is there for him...I still have the kids, bils to pay the house to keep and he is having FUN...sure he cried for a day..wow a whole day!!! I am sickened..it is still a man's world! Where were all these people when I heard about all the 10 women in the last 5 years? And I still have all the responsibilities!!! 15 years of marriage and he gets to calm down as admitting to his filthy adultery and internet porn was hard for him? Am I stupid or is there something wrong with this? If anything makes me revengeful it is the great time he is having during the most horrible time in my life!!! The kids don't want to hear about it..they shouldn't I need all that loving that he is getting not him!!!! He got his time and time and time over!!!! I am mad!

Hi love? -<P>Move over because I'm right there with you on this. What the heck is wrong with this world? I don't get it!!<P>Societal reactions are just so nonchalant about the immoral behaviors and absolute wrongs that some people exhibit....They don't care or even think of the "victims" of those wrongs!!<P>Then, there's all this time, energy, money and concern spent on "recovering" for whatever vice they have that the actual "wrongness" of it is not addressed......<P>Is it me or is there something screwed up with that????<P>Perhaps that is why this kind of behavior is so prevelant in society today!!!<P>It just stinks!!<P>Can't help, but I certainly agree.<P>Hugs and Strength to you and the kids,<P>Sheba

Love & Sheba<P>Count me in too !!! Its is dam right sick and enough to make anyone angry !!<P>Jenny<P>------------------<BR>Where have all the cowboys gone ?<P>

The explanation is very simple.<P>In this dysfunctional society, there is only one virtue: tolerance<BR>and there is only one sin:<BR>intolerance.<P>What better way to arrogantly flaunt your "capacity to care" that to run around looking for the most ridiculous cases to "pardon and understand". People are eager to make other people in society think that they "care", so they heap piles of lovey-doveys on people that normally would be rebuked for their selfish behavior.<P>But take heart ladies, you are forgetting the almighty bumper sticker..."if Mama ain't happy, nobody's happy. If Daddy ain't happy, nobody cares."<P>The only way to get any kind of equilibrium in your horribly unjust situation is to raise holy hell until somebody finally sits up and takes notice.<BR>