Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum
This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at
mbrestored@gmail.com
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jul 2000
Posts: 46
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Jul 2000
Posts: 46 |
One minute I am mad, the other I am glad. I dont know how I am feeling. One minute I can deal with it and the other minute, I cant understand what happened. It is moving into day number 3 and I am growing frustrated as hell. Am I mad because he hasnt tried to work things out? Or am I glad? Someone tell me what I am feeling? I dont even know anymore. I am a professional and I cant believe I cant deal with this. I cant talk to my family. I dont want them to get tired of hearing it. I hate to put myself off on anyone. Maybe I should just go to bed. Some of you have passed the stage I am in. Afterall, it has only been ALMOST 3 days. He has seen his kids every day since the day they were born. How can he just FORGET them? Not even call about them? Do I want him to?<BR>
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jul 2000
Posts: 46
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Jul 2000
Posts: 46 |
I am sorry I am posting so much. I am just LOST!!
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jun 2000
Posts: 79
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Jun 2000
Posts: 79 |
Its ok........really its ok.......<P>I understand how you feel......lots of people here do I am sure.<P>Tuesday I didnt get out of bed all day.....I laid there and cried......all day long......begged God to just take me home.....(religious aversion to suicide)<P>I think that was my low point so far.....that was about 5 days out.<P>One moment I feel devestated, the next numb, the next at peace then back through them all again.<P>I blamed myself........I blamed God.......I blamed everyone but her.......<P>In the end.....it was her CHOICE to leave......it was her CHOICE to cheat......<P>Sometimes love is not enough......especially if one side loves more than the other.....<P>Breathe.......and try to get some rest
|
|
|
Moderated by Ariel, BerlinMB, Denali, Fordude, IrishGreen, MBeliever, MBsurvivor, MBSync, McLovin, Mizar, PhoenixMB, Toujours
|
0 members (),
426
guests, and
80
robots. |
|
Key:
Admin,
Global Mod,
Mod
|
|
|
Forums67
Topics133,625
Posts2,323,525
Members72,045
| |
Most Online6,102
Jul 3rd, 2025
|
|
|
|
|
|
