Does anyone have any suggestions for how to handle things like splitting up the family photo albums? Although my W acts friendly and seems to want to do things in a spirit of cooperation, i'm still very angry and hurt at her affair and subsequent move into an apartment. As a little background she had an EA/PA in early 99. We stayed together until early 00 when she moved out. She filed in Sep 99 and is finally actually going through with it. <P>I just can't imagine having to sit down with her and split up pictures. I am so angry w/her for what she is doing to our family. The only way i've been able to get some relief from the hurt and anger is to stay apart from her. Now it seems i have to endure hours of being in her presence. <P>I'm open to any suggestions on ways to accomplish these delicate tasks w/o actually being together. <P>Sorry i haven't been more active here, but i'm not really in a position to be of much help. <BR>

nlitend:<P>Assuming that you want all the pictures, ask her if she wants them. If she does, ask her to mark those she does want (maybe with a little dot sticker if they're in plastic sleeves). Take them to a photofinisher who can do replicates, and keep the copies.<P>

I would suggest getting copies of the alblums made and splitting the cost. Pictures can be scanned and reprinted. The cost would be well worth the aggravation and frustration avoided.<P>Tom