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My husband and I have been together for almost 5 years and married for almost 2 years..In that time we have had only one major concern that holds our relationship back..I, for some reason we have yet to be able to figure out, have a non existant sex drive..There are times, even though far and few between, that I am able to be with him with no problem, but mostly it is a neverending battle to be intimate with him..We have been to numerous counselors who have not been any help and this is about to drive us to divorce..We do love eachother, but this is getting to be too much for the both of us..We only fight and have problems when I am not able to be intimate with him..I really am at my wits end..and would appreciate any help you could give...Thankyou..
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Joined: Jul 1999
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Question: Since you have been to counselors, did they say your problem was emotional? Is there soome sexual trauma in your past?<br>OR is it possible that what you are experiencing is A medical problem.? Are you on any medications that inhibit libido, are you depressed? You can't just manufactor a libido if you don't have one. I have a girlfriend who is chronically depressed and has no libido but still has sex once in awhile to please her husband, I had a grilfriend in the past who had a hysterectomy at a young age and took birth control pills to GET a libido. You didn't give much information....JADE
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Charlatan,<p>It is quite possible that your problem is medical. Have you been to your doctor? My dad is an OB/GYN and I know that he gives horomone shots for women that have this problem.<p>Steph ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif)
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