Just hadn't seen much from you lately...hope you are doing OK.<P>Let us know...<P>Kathi

Yeah Gina! Let us know!!<P>P.S. Murph wants to have a slumber party with us now! <P>Mitzi

I sent her an email to her personal account, as I started wondering myself.<P>I haven't heard anything yet, hope everything is OK. <P>thl

Hey Gina!!!<P>Where have you been, glad that Kathi brought up this little not cuz have been wondering about you and was about to post and ask the same question!!<P>So I do hope things are going at least "OKAY" for you!? Have you taken any breaks lately for vacation or just to get out of town for a weekend or anything like that?<P>I guess personally I had a nice weekend in Kansas City a couple weeks ago. Was nice to get out of town and enjoy myself!<P>I so hope that you are managing well, and that you have found some way to enjoy yourself in someway or another!<P>Like Kathi, Mitzi and THL I am totally wondering how you are and where you have been as of late!<P>Let us all know what you've been up to, how you are doing and how you FEEL!!!!<P>Drew <P>PS...how does one get into a VIRTUAL slumber party Mitzi?<p>[This message has been edited by Blue Drew (edited July 26, 2000).]

<B>Kathi,</B><P>Hey there!.........Yes,I am alive and still kicking!<P>Everything is going well........(well,as well as one could expect w/going through a D)<BR> <BR>We have still maintained our "Friendship" so to speak for the children!.......<P>I have been trying to keep my self busy.<BR>Not quite ready for going back to school yet!<P>Thank you so much for asking and I will let you know what is happeing!<P>I do hope all is well for you!<P>Gina<P><P>------------------<BR>"If we deny love that is given to us,if we refuse to give love because we fear pain or loss,then our lives will be empty,our loss greater!"-----Anonymous----

<B>Hey Mitzi/Jodi,</B><P>Hey girl how ya been doing?<P>I am ok.........been keeping my self busy!<P>Nothing much as changed still getting the D and we are still getting along........so far!<P>I tell you what Murph is still working on getting that 3some huh????..... ...LOL<P>In his dreams!........I am saving my self!<BR>LMAO..... : : : :<P>Thanks again for asking about me it does mean a lot!<P>Hope all is going ok w/you and your boys aren't driving you toooo crazy....(I still don't know how you do it?)....LOL...<P>Take care.......<P><B>Thl,</B><P>Thank you so much for asking.......... <BR>I am doing alright!......<P>Just trying to keep busy!.... <P>Do you have your vacation planed out yet?<P>Take care!<P><B>Drew</B><P>Hey there buddy!<P>Oh.......I have been around.....just trying to keep my self busy is all!<P>Still in the process of the D.......<BR>(I am ready for it to be over)<P>Sounds like you had a nice little vacation!<P>I have had a small one my self........still planing on going to OHio in a couple of weeks for my B-day! <P>Really haven't been up to to much........<BR>I really appreciate you and everyone else asking how I am doing.........that really means so much to me to know that I have such great friends and wonderful support!<P>As far as the way that I am "Feeling"......well,I actually am feeling pretty good!....still kinda tough to have to go through all of this but.......have a positive attitude (trying....of course some days are harder than others.)LOL<P>I am sooo ready to get on w/my life!<BR>I have been in "Limbo Land" now for 9 months,and am quite tired of it!........<P>So you are wanting in on that slumber party w/Murph and Mitzi huh?.........might be able to arrange it!.....LMAO<P>You didn't say how you were doing.......are you doing ok?......<P>Take it easy and don't work tooo hard!<P>Thank you again for asking..........<P>Gina <P><P>------------------<BR>"If we deny love that is given to us,if we refuse to give love because we fear pain or loss,then our lives will be empty,our loss greater!"-----Anonymous----

Gina/Marilyn,<P> Where the heck ya been??<BR> <BR> We keep asking about you,and talking about you behind your back,but no response.<BR> <BR>That's it-just forget about your friends. <BR>(is this guilt trip working?)<P> We just wondered if maybe you got hit by a truck?<BR> <BR>OK,I'm glad to hear you're hanging in there,and feeling better.Another year,and we'll forget about this whole mess,right?<P>Listen,you have a great Birthday in Ohio(Ohio?),and stay out of trouble! <P> And here I thought you were saving yourself for me.Where did I go wrong?Was it something I said?<P> ~~Murph/Mel<P> P.S.-About that threesome........

<B>Hey Murph/Mel,</B><P>Hey there Yard God!........how ya doing?<P>I have been out and about hanging at the Pool!.....(can't stay away from the Pool Hotties.) <P>So you have been talking about me behind my back huh?......that is why my ears were burning!.....( and here I thought that it was just the sun.) :<P>YES!....your guilt trip is working!.....<BR>I do feel bad for not being around as much,I am soooo addicted to this site I thought that I should take a little brake and get some of my house work done!<BR>LMAO.....<P>Yeah......I do hope that you are right!....I hope that by next year this will all be just a memory! (yeah right!)<P>I will stay out of trouble when in Ohio,at Mom and Dad's so what could I posibly get into?......LMAO<BR>If I end up in jail.............can I count on you to bail me out????..... <P>Oh.....I know that you thought that I was saving my self for you............it isn't anything that you said.......LOL...no,really I promise.<P>Just that I am saving my self for a very Tall Dark haired Handsome Man that has a "lil boy grin"!!........and since we both know that you are a "Blond"......Dang,that rules you out!..........sorry Mel!<P>Thanks for asking..........I will be around and lurk from time to time!......<BR>I will let you know what is up!<P>Take it easy........don't be working to hard in the yard!!!<P>Oh,about that threesome......you wanting that at the slumber party?...........better ask if Drew can come along.....he wants in on it too!!! <P>Gina <P>------------------<BR>"If we deny love that is given to us,if we refuse to give love because we fear pain or loss,then our lives will be empty,our loss greater!"-----Anonymous----<p>[This message has been edited by w.g.up.h (edited July 26, 2000).]

Marilyn,<BR> <BR> Sure,I'll bail you out,but it'll cost ya! <P> Yeah,I know about goofing off on here too much,but someone has to keep an eye on Mitz.I'm afraid she'd miss me-NOT!<P> You want to know a little secret?<P> Those tall,dark and handsome men are a dime a dozen.Don't trust any of them!I know what I'm talking about.What you need is a good,old-fashioned,reliable,never-let-you-down,Danish Yard God,with a cute smile.(I'll see if I can find you one)<P> How about e-mailing me some hot pix of Marilyn lounging by the pool to add to my collection.After all,ALL the other women here have sent me theirs! <P> ~~Murph/Mel/Tom/Ricky<BR> <P>

Gina,<P>It's about time you crawled back here!!! Murph's still up to his same old tricks. He thinks he's here to keep an eye on me but it's actually the other way around. I have to keep him in line! <P>Drew,<P>The virtual slumber party is being held on the thread that just won't die. As is a community birthday party! Join in anytime!!!<P>Jodie/Mitzi

Gina,<BR>When and where are you going to be in Ohio?<BR>I'm near Akron and Theo is in Columbus.<P>Look me up if you time.<P>Bob

Gina, Gina, Gina<P>It is good to know that you are still alive, well, and kickin'! Keep that heart and mind a tickin' cause someday that Tall Dark hair, handsome man will walk in your front door, sweep ya off your feet and give ya what your looking for!!!<P>And Murphy, I take a bit of heed in your comment about those kind of guys I am a tall, Partially dark haired man (to damn much gray hair now) and I won't say handsome man, but I guess I hold my own So damn I guess I fit in that Dime part of the dozen...LMAO<BR>Just flippin' ya crap! So no offense taken here cause we are a dime a dozen...LMAO<P>Mitzi, I have seen that MONSTER POST...and all be damned, I can't share myself with that many people. IS there a way to open a new thread, and have a virtual party that you have to have a "special password" to get in? Although I have to say, what I have read in that is funny as heck!<P>But it is so dad gum big now that I won't even try to read all of it. WOW you guys know how to party Murhpy, Mitzi and Gina! And the others in there!<P>For those of you that have no clue about me...better off that way...LOL...But I actually signed papers last weekend...so am headed down that divorce freeway and guess I am ready to party with you all! Go Gina...keep in mind...I am tall (6-6) dark haired (keep in mind I DO have gray NOW) and while I won't say I am handsome, I will say that I think I can still flirt with the best of them! <P>I just "erased the chalkboard of marriage" but other then a couple days of issues with my STBX I am ready to PARTY!!!<P>Gina keep us posted okay! Don't be a stranger by gum...Oh BTW...Happy Birthday to you early! Are you in Ohio or just visiting there?<P>Mitzi...think about a smaller party...I am not good in big crowds...I like to be more personal <P>To all, I WILL BE IN TOUCH!!!!!<P>Drew

Gina,<P>At least you're still around. I can't leave here yet! It's my only addiction! LOL And as you can see, Murph's still up to his old tricks. You think you know someone... <P>Drew,<P>So what do you think? Should a new PARTY thread be started? Can't do the password thing, but maybe we could figure out some other security precautions. <P>There are actually only a few regulars that post on the "other thread", but some extras stop in once in a while. (Mostly now, it's me, Murph, Butterfly and [censored].) We're posting birthdays there now. Murph won't tell us when his is. He's trying to be mysterious! <P>Mitz

Mitzi Mitzi!<P>I am an early Libra..Sept. 30 LOL...anyway...I guess we can come up with some criteria...but hey, I am up for new things to...heck what the hell. I have always been one to try most anything once at least... <P>I think a virtual party would be JUST "GRAND" and damn if you guys on the other thread don't amaze me...LOL...So I am game...what about Murphy, Gina and others? LOL<P>Put a couple of brews in me I can party then! LOL<P>Tell me the plan Mitzi...all ears...well I guess in this matter I am all EYES.<P>Call it Party 2 or something.<P>Sound like a plan to me <BR>Drew

Drew,<P>Just so you know...our first party started at the beginning of June and hasnt' stopped yet! LOL LOL So, if we start Party 2, be prepared! <P>Mitz

Okay heres is my Midwest Redneckedness coming out...YEE HAW...LOL<P>Hey guys it is a PARTY 2 now...and Mitzi says to be prepared... <P>Kind of GREAT how one can be hurt and be light hearted and look for some fun now and then!<P>I am READY WILLING AND ABLE TO PARTY MITZI!<P>Drew <p>[This message has been edited by Blue Drew (edited July 27, 2000).]

Gina,<P>I poked my head in over here because I hadn't heard from you in so long and was wondering how you were. I'm glad you're feeling OK. Things will keep getting better for you. I just know it.<P>

<B>TS,</B><P>Hey girl!......thanks for checking in on me!<P>I know that I haven't been around......posting,that is......but I have been lurking!<P>I have been really self absorbed lately w/everything that is going on w/me.......and to be honest....I just haven't found the words or encouragement to post much!.......(but I am always thinking of everyone here and saying prayers for you all to have the strength to continue the fight!)<P>Things really are going well.......well,about as well as could be expected......we are still getting along and agree to everything.........and the kids are doing pretty good!......(I guess that is a good thing and it really could be a lot worse!)<P>I hope all is well for you.......and that there is some improvment for you......(even if it is just a lil baby step....it is still something.)<P>I will still be lurking from time to time...and I will let you know what is going on!.......(I have got about 30 days or less)<P>Take it easy!<P>Gina <P>------------------<BR>"If we deny love that is given to us,if we refuse to give love because we fear pain or loss,then our lives will be empty,our loss greater!"-----Anonymous----

Hey Gina,<BR> You're self-absorbed alright,checking out the studs at the pool! <P> Just teasing,but then you knew that.I'm just glad things are working out for you.<BR>So,what's the first thing you're going to do when you're a free woman?<P> Take a trip to Club Med?<BR> Climb Mt Everest?<BR> Learn to skydive?<BR> Buy a sports car?<BR> Train for the Olympics?<BR> Visit Murph's basement?<BR> (just threw that one in to see if you were paying attention)<BR> <BR> At least you're not still stalking me.WHEW!<BR>(what was your address again?)<P> Stop by once in a while and let us know how you are doing.Take care. <P> ~~Murph/Yard God<BR> <P>