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#667590 08/20/00 10:57 AM
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When W and I separated, I kept a knot in my stomach and always pressure in my chest. Constantly felt like a heartattack was coming. Have not been eating well either. BUT, when she said she wanted a divorce, she feelings went away and I honestly felt better. Then, bam, when she comes crying back wanting not to get a divorce only date and take it slow, here comes the feelings again. NOW, every time I am with her or talk to her, the feelings inside get very strong. I don't understand if it is because I am excited to see her OR is it my gut telling me that being there is wrong. Why did I feel better thinking it was over? Why do I now resent her for making the pain return? Now, I think I want to end it all just to have the pressure of wondering go away and feel the relieve again. Would that too be a short thing?<BR>LHC2

#667591 08/21/00 02:46 PM
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You really should consider seeing a doctor on this...<P>Stress... can induce so many physical and emotional abnormalities....<P>Perhaps... just perhaps... anti-depresants or other medication is in order...<P>Don't rule that out of hand...<P> [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Jim


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