Well, it has been since Tuesday since I left a message and I hope some of you can give me some feedback on the latest happenings.<BR> Thank you NSR! I took your suggestion, as well as reading what others are doing or have done to try and recover their marriage. I have been doing anything possible for her to relax when she gets home from a hectic day (ex. making dinner, kids baths, etc...). I think by doing some of those items as well as back rubs, conversation about her day (listening mostly), encouragement on work projects, etc..., that I have made some positive deposits and have not tried to smother her with affection. I found in the past that too much can make her very annoyed.<BR> Well, during the last couple of days I managed to write her a five page letter that explained to her that I know what I have done wrong, how I haven't met her ENs, and what I intend to do to fix our marriage, even if it is by myself. So, this morning I decided to try a surprise to go with the letter. I got up early and made her breakfast along with a dozen red roses and the letter. She read the letter with a few tears (which was somewhat encouraging to me) and thanked me for the letter, roses and breakfast. I had told her that I didn't expect a reaction, but I was shocked that, other than the few tears, she really didn't react to anything in the letter. I can only hope that she will allow me the opportunity to show her that I can change and meet all of her needs. Well, hopefully we’ll have a good weekend and I will update.<BR>