Hi, new to the board. I also post in Willing Spirits as CJ. Am interested in learning about Plan A and Plan B. Where on this board do I find that information? I haven't been able to locate an article here yet to describe what this is.<P>Thanks, CJ

CJ,<P>The site is under refit but I think these links will take you where you want to go.<P><BR><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3000_intro.html" TARGET=_blank>Dr. Harley's Basic Concepts</A><BR><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3400_lovebust.html" TARGET=_blank>Love Busters</A><BR><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8113_ab.html" TARGET=_blank>Plan A and Plan B</A><BR><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3200_love.html" TARGET=_blank>Love Bank</A><BR><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3300_needs.html" TARGET=_blank>Emotional Needs</A><BR><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3500_policy.html" TARGET=_blank>The Policy of Joint Agreement(POJA)</A><BR><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3550_give.html" TARGET=_blank>Giver and Taker</A><BR><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3900_rules.html" TARGET=_blank>The Four Rules for a Successful Marriage</A><P>Goo luck to you.<P>Bill<P>------------------<P><BR>May the roads rise to meet you,<BR>May the winds always be at your back,<BR>May the sun shine warm upon your face,<BR>The rains fall soft upon your fields,<BR>And until we meet again,<BR>May god hold you<BR>In the hollow of his hand.<p>[This message has been edited by WilliamJ (edited September 04, 2000).]

Thanks so much- I found that article helpful, but a little late. Wish I had read that about 5 months ago when I was busy being angry and demanding. This article was reccommended to me by someone a month ago, but I never read past the first few paragraphs at that time. I was depressed that day I think, believing there was no hope anyway.<P>Regardless, the article had many truths in it that it has taken me 9 months to believe and figure out. I passed it on to others.<P>Thanks again for all your links. I am going to read one a day.<P>Post Script:<BR>I love that Irish blessing. We sang it as a closing song in my college choir at every concert. Beautiful arrangement. <p>[This message has been edited by CJ87 (edited September 05, 2000).]