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I have not posted in a while, In fact this is my first post in this forum. I have come to the conclusion that this is just not going to work out. I am sick of the lies. Too much evidence points to more and more lies. I think that after a year he is still seeing her. I have had enough. I want to move on.<P>I have not done any research yet on seperation. Can any one tell me the steps I need to take? Any advice you can give me will be greatly appreciated. How about cost. How costly is it? How do we agree on assets and financial arangments?<P>Thank you in advance for your help.<P>Acacia
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This stuff really depends on the state you are in.<P>This question would probably go better over on <A HREF="http://www.divorcenet.com." TARGET=_blank>www.divorcenet.com.</A> They have state specific boards over there that can answer this question better than I can.
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Great site...<BR>...check the others at <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum34/HTML/000265.html" TARGET=_blank>Divorce Related Web Sites</A><P>How about Plan B for a while?...<P> ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>Jim
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I did a plan b already. I have to say that I was not any good at plan A. <P>There have just been too many lies. We were having some success at rebuilding but during this process I have continually uncovered more lies. Big lies. We agreed to no contact and yet he continues to have contact with her and he hides it from me. He also finally told me that they did have a sexual incounter. Which means that he has been lying about that for the past year as well. I just don't think I can take the heartache anymore. I don't feel safe enough to be vunerable to him anymore. If he has not been honest with me at a time when he knows how much I need it to continue on in our marriage, than I believe it is a lesson that he can not learn.<P>I want more than that. I want to be with someone that I can trust. It is imcredible how much we take this for granted. Just to know that when your Husband says he has to work late, you can actually believe him!<P>Thanks for the divorce web sites. I am going to begin exploring them.<P><BR>Acacia<BR>
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