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I'm not sure how I will feel about it. The kids will be with x from Fri nite till Sun nite so I won't have them.<P>I'm not sure if I should tell my lady friend about it or not. I hate to bring up subject of x. I don't want to sound like I'm harboring thoughts (other than nasty) about her. Lady friend has been good about it too as she has one from 5 yrs ago.<P>We have plans for Fri nite, not sure about Sat or Sun. I really don't think it will bother me. Besides I have tons of work to do around the house and for my job.
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Hi RWD,<P>As a female I probably would not want to know. Again that is just me. Do you feel sad about it or just oh yeah my anniversary? <P> <P>
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It is oh yeah, this would have been my anniversary. Last year at this time we were just starting to reconcile(for the 3rd time)which only lasted till early Nov. So its not a sad feeling at all.
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Hi Bob!!<P>On my anniversary I went to see "the Story of Us"..BAD idea.....I was a basket case for a couple of days!!<P>But this anniversary I will have been divorced for almost a yr, so I do not feel it will be bad on me...<P>Lady friend, huh???!!?? I thought you were waiting for me!!!! Men are so fickle!!<P>------------------<BR>Susan
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Bob,<P>I think you should be honest with your ladie friend and tell her how you are feeling...It may help build intimacy...unless your LF doesn't like to hear about that...<P>I'd tell<P>Bill
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RWD:<BR>As you know,I just signed my divorce on my anniversary this past Tuesday. Actually, that 'crummy' day wasn't as bad as I thought. I found that the stress and anxiety leading up to it was worse.<P>I agree that you should share your feelings with your lady friend. Maybe she can help you through it.<P>------------------<BR>JH93
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I probably would have mentioned it. I meant to post earlier. Sorry I missed I'm so late. <P>X and I married on Valentine's day. Big Mistake. But, I have a friend who's husband died of AIDS and they had also married on Val. Day. Therefore, she and I have standing date for that day. I know what people are bound to think. Two nicely dressed women in a nice restaurant on Valentine's Day. Who cares. I now look at my anniversary as a day of celebration of growth and survival.
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The day passed without event. I didn't mention to my friend as we didn't get together yesterday. I was busy around the house and never even thought of it.
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Bob,<P>SOrry I am late. Today is my anniversary. I just received my final papers 3 days ago. <P>I wasn't thinking much of it until all my friends called to see how I was. Glad to see you made it thru!<P>I have been away lately, what's with this lady friend??? <P>Dana
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