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Hi everyone!<BR>I hope everyone has been doing okay.<BR>Sorry i haven't been online for awhile<BR>but i hope to get my computer fixed soon.<BR>I am using a friends service right now.<P>Please advise me......<BR>I remember telling you all last that my husband has been talking to someone on the internet. They have been talking on the phone and now he says that she is coming down here for a first meeting and is staying at his parents house. They've supposedly only been talking for four months.<BR>He bought her the ticket to get here, and will be attending the family baptism. I am suppose to be attending, because months ago my sister-in-law asked me to take pictures. I feel alot of anxiety over whether or not to go. My sister-in-law told me i could bring a date. Not something i think i will or want to do.<BR>I think the best thing for me to do is go to the church take the pictures and avoid the family gathering afterwards.
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I'm inclined to agree. <P>If you'll be too uncomfortable, you have the right to decline to make the pictures. Don't forget that.
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Yes, you can say No to taking the pictures..and you don't even need to explain<BR>why you don't want to do it.. ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif)
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I'll need some more info here and you'll have to refresh my memory before I'm able to give you much advice. Are you separated from your husband, have you filed divorce papers, are you living apart? If you are still legally married and don't have any agreements as far as dating goes, then why would you bring a date to a baptism and why does your husband feel justified in flying another woman in from out of town for this event? Also, if you are still married, how are his parents possibly in agreement for this OW to stay at their house? Maybe I missed something, but there are several things wrong with this picture.<P>My wife has moved out, our divorce papers are signed and we are just waiting for a court date. I would almost guarantee that if my W attempted to introduce a new man to her family at this point, they would completely disown her. I would be very surprised if they didn't.<P>I don't mean to be brief, but give me a little more detail regarding your story and I'll go from there. I'd like to help if I can.<BR><P>------------------<BR>JH93
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