200 WOOHOO!!!<P>

Another Question:<P>Does anyone else feel that post divorce sex is great (once you get past the moral, ethical and safety issues)? I'm not sure how many others here are like me. Divorced, dating and enjoying sex for the first time in 18 years. <BR>

I can't answer you on that one Jen, but I will once I have something to compare it too. My hope is a definite YES We will just have to see. <P>The hardest thing I'm going to have to deal with is my own inner guilt of being sexually active with a woman other than my wife when I am still in love with my wife. She and I each had partners prior to our marriage, but that was a few years back. <P>I just know that celibacy and no intimacy does not fit well into my lifestyle. And I've never been a big one for just casual relationships so basically I'm just messed up. Remember my list of list of things that would keep me from entering another relationship right now? (older post) Well, insert that list here! I guess I'll have to face those emotions when the time comes. At least I'll be honest with the other person before it happens just in case I break out in tears at some point. Hopefully it will be after and not during. That could be a real ego killer for the other person. Don't want that.<BR>

Well, the big difference between you and me is how you feel about your wife. I agree that if you still have feelings for your wife, you shouldn't get involved with anyone else. For me, those feelings are long gone. I was hoping we could figure out a way to make it all work out, but we couldn't (you have heard my story before). And, now I have found someone that I really enjoy being with. I never thought that would be possible. So, I am going to enjoy it while I can. Anyone else feel this way? And, if The Student is reading this, you don't have to answer that. Just kidding.<P>Sorry, I just realized I was moving away from the original subject matter. Let's just get back to sex. <P>

You are right, but when does that love for your spouse begin to fade? I can't say for sure when I knew that I was in love with her and I know that I will never stop loving her. I guess time will tell and will allow these feelings to subside.<P>Now back to sex......<P>Another topic we have not covered is 'risky' or 'wild' places to engage in sexual exploits. <P>My experience in this area is not that broad, but I would say that my riskiest exploit was on an inflatable raft in the middle of Lone Star Lake (popular college lake hang-out) in the middle of the day on a Saturday afternoon. The amazing part is that nobody we knew even seemed to notice.<P>Aaaaahhhhh the craziness of youth

Bill... Love the song.. ROFLMAOPIMP!!!!<BR>A is for Apple<BR>B is for Boy<BR>C is for... <P><BR>As for enjoying post marital sex... YES, YES, YYYEEEEEESSSSSSSSSSSSSSS! <I>Multiple</I> times YES!!!<BR>I do think it has a lot to do with respect (both ways), and being made to feel attractive again. As well as having know this person for almost 15 years (old friends)... But it is definatly GOOOOD! <P>As for wild and crazy places.... well let see... I dated a guy in college who worked at a bar... one night we did it up against the dumpster out behind the bar.... it was the middle of winter, 6 inches of snow, and my butt got stuck to the metal (ya know, kinda like sticking your tongue to the flagpole) did I really just admit to that???? <P>Well, it's almost 3 am, so I'm going to go take a cold shower and go to bed.... alone . <P>See ya'll later today!<BR>Smooches,<BR>Busty B

In a Gondola at Steamboat. The damn thing broke down & we were alone in the car with the windows frosted over & had recently partaken of a particular substance that always seems to, shall we say, reduce inhibitions. Unfortunately, they got the thing going too soon. I still can't ride a Gondola without remembering that. I have this mental picture of one gondola swinging back & forth on that cable, all the rest hanging motionless....<P>I do remember that the seats were awful cold though.... <P>------------------<BR>nick<P>it's only time that heals the pain and makes the sun come out again

On the fifty-yard line at the high school football field!! (No, it wasn't during a game! )<P>Mitzi

Oh boy! <P>Nick, bad. <P>In a car on I-25 driving down to Trinadad. No wait--on the bench in a park in Turkey Creek Canyon. No wait--on a blanket after a hike in Thompson Canyon on the top of the canyon. Oh yeah!! THAT was the riskiest, coolest place.<P>CJ bad too, I guess.<P>CJ<P>------------------<BR>Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.

On the couch while my GF sister sat in the recliner 5 feet away Mom and Dad were upstairs and came down 2 minutes after we were done....no one susspected a thing.<P>Bill

After a college football game (and many drinks) on a huge 24 section modular couch, under a blanket that covered the whole thing,while others were sleeping all around us.

Oooohhhh.... I just thought of another one... In the back of an ambulance parked in the bay at the fire station.... twice.<P>Hey CJ.... Butterfly bad too?

Bad, Butterfly.<P>Berry, Berry Bad.<P> <P>CJ

underneath the flags at the Bethesda Naval hospital!

I think that's a matter of interpretation!<P>Is bad really bad or is bad really good?

I will quote Huey Lewis on this one:<P>"It's cool as a rule, but<BR>sometimes Bad is Bad."<P>BTW, there is a totally hilarious game going on here in Denver that I thought might make Nick laugh. Four people are LIVING in a gondola for one of those radio station challenge games. The last person to survive in the gondola wins $20,000!!<P>Tee hee snicker chuckle.<P>CJ<P>------------------<BR>Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.

A military girlfriend or wife might relate: Hiding bare-butt naked in a walllocker in the Marine Corps barracks with one's heart pounding in one's throat while the CQ is pounding on the door asking if there is a female in the room.

Oh wow!<BR>An Ambulance!<P>As a former EMT, an ambulance is a veritable Disneyland. Lights, sirens, restraints, tape, gauze, splints. Those gurneys aren't half bad, kind of narrow & you have to remember to lock the wheels. Of course a call in the middle of the festivities could be embarrassing. <P>How about the scene on the fire truck in Backflash?<P>CJ, how long so far? As I remember, the gondolas at S'boat were kind of small. The ones at K'ton (VT) are way bigger, but there's always someone waiting to get on at the mid-mountain station (I wonder if a "do not disturb" sigh on the door would help).<P> <P>------------------<BR>nick<P>it's only time that heals the pain and makes the sun come out again

Well, eleven days so far, with five fifteen minute breaks to go to the bathroom. I'm sure with the right companion it could be fun--but 11 days! <P>CJ

Used to do it all the time on a blanket in the park behind a picnic shelter (between that and the wooded area) and later discovered a hiking trail ran about 25 feef from us down a bank about 5 feet. And before x and I married we did it one day in his parents' bed. They were out. That afternoon I ended up having to wash and iron the sheets. Yup - iron the sheets.