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#672798 10/20/00 07:02 PM
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Okay guys<BR> I'm really reaching out here...Tuesday and yesterday my heart got ripped out again. MY FAULT for letting my boundaries down. I really don't want to get into it, but I just need some encouragement tonight/this weekend. I keep asking the Lord why He's not allowing me to move from here, I feel like I'm being tortured. My heart in a vise. When is it going to get better!!!

#672799 10/20/00 07:47 PM
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Well, I can't tell you when it will get better, but I can be your partner in misery. Not looking forward to this weekend myself. Wondering "what next"???? I am brand new at all of this, but I can understand the pain.

#672800 10/20/00 07:56 PM
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I don't know.<P>I got better when I let go.<P>That's up to you to decide. If you're going to keep on fighting, steel your heart. Plan A hurts. Choose your course. Saving your relationship will be hard and take time. It will be worth it no matter the outcome. It's not going to get better for awhile. Concentrate on making YOURSELF better. That's what plan A is all about.<P>------------------<BR>nick<P>it's only time that heals the pain and makes the sun come out again


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