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I just wanted to let you know that after reading many posts - yours kept standing out ---- I am a happily married woman (well, most of the time) but I wanted to reinforce to you what a wonderful person you are and that you deserve a woman that will love you like you should be loved.<P>Best to you.
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Thanks t&b,<BR>How are you doing?<BR><P>------------------<BR>nick<P>it's only time that heals the pain and makes the sun come out again
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I'm good - my H and I are in the recovery stage after his affair almost 7 years ago. God, that sounds so long ago and yet I am only 32. We have 3 beautiful boys and I believe our marriage has been repaired and is so much better now. He has finally become the man I have wanted all of these years. I hope I didn't embarress you with my post - I just felt such a connection with you and was SO blown away by your honesty and your attitude. I truly hope that your wife comes around and sees you for the amazing man that you are.
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How could I be embarrassed? Someone saying something as nice as that to me always makes me feel very special. Thanks.<P>I would like for her to change her mind, but that process is so far down the line that by the time she realizes what's really happened, it'll be too late. Not every MB story is a success. Most marriages can be repaired of almost any damage, if both partners want it to survive & work together on it. Most of them can't when one of the partners doesn't want that. Unfortunately mine was the latter. <BR>I see everything she's giving up and I really feel sad for her, believing that in a couple of years, she's truly going to regret this and very likely will want me back. Too bad that's out of my time frame.<P>I love hearing about couples who fix the problems in their marriages and end up even better than before. That's what I believed could happen to ours too.<P>I'm so glad you guys made it. You probably learned a lot more about each other than ever before. The most important thing to remember, is it takes love, care and attention every day, just like any other living thing.<P>Take care.<P>------------------<BR>nick<P>it's only time that heals the pain and makes the sun come out again
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