I posted my frustrations to the "conflict" forum and I won't go into all that again :-)<BR>I recieved some advice that I needed to hear.<BR>Now I need to ask a question here!<BR>I think my husband has been using me and I have been blind and heart-sick. I think I'm going to stop it by filing for divorce, but I don't know how to begin. How do I get him to leave if he refuses?