My husband has left. After becoming a born again Christian my husband says he is no longer interested in me. He says I was not the type of woman he was planning to spend the rest of his life with. I am devestated and don't know what to do. I have begged and pleaded but he insists that "time heals all wounds" I am so hurt. I don't want to turn my back on my new found faith. But I never dreamed that accepting the Lord would turn out in me loosing my husband.

I don't understand how commiting yourself to God gives anyone a reason to divorce. ???

I'm confused. Who recently became a Christian - you or your husband. This doesn't fit with Biblical teachings. (Did you know that the single topic most written about in the NT is love?)<P>For starters, you need pastoral care. Talk to your minister - if you don't have a church home, talk to some Christian friends. Perhaps you can find one soon - preferrably one with a minister or staff member who does counseling or can make a referral to a Christian counselor. Secondly, pray - especially for yourself but also for your husband. <P>I am so sorry you are going through this. I can't imagine what it would be like. It was tough enough when I was secure in my faith.

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by crash:<BR><B>My husband has left. After becoming a born again Christian my husband says he is no longer interested in me. He says I was not the type of woman he was planning to spend the rest of his life with. I am devestated and don't know what to do. I have begged and pleaded but he insists that "time heals all wounds" I am so hurt. I don't want to turn my back on my new found faith. But I never dreamed that accepting the Lord would turn out in me loosing my husband. </B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>

QUOTE]Originally posted by crash:<BR><B>My husband has left. After becoming a born again Christian my husband says he is no longer interested in me. He says I was not the type of woman he was planning to spend the rest of his life with. I am devestated and don't know what to do. I have begged and pleaded but he insists that "time heals all wounds" I am so hurt. I don't want to turn my back on my new found faith. But I never dreamed that accepting the Lord would turn out in me loosing my husband. </B>[/QUOTE]<BR>hi crash i feel that your husband will come back home if you have faith and believe in christ as you said that you are a christian i am christian too... a santify wife makes a santify husband or reverse, you have to believe and don't leave the church or stop reading the bible because you feel like you have lost your husband , continue to read and go the church and remember to pray and believe me he will gradually come home i promise you god never fails anyone..... if you need a friend just to talk to through e-mail diamondpurity@hotmail.com<P>tks and take care