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Just wondering, what do you do, if anything, when your anniversary comes around. Our 11th is this 25th. I guess it's now just another day in the year. Do you acknowledge it or just let it pass and hope they hurt?<BR>Called and talked to my son tonight. She says she's doing fine so guess my decision last night really didn't phase her or thinks I'm bluffing. Anyway, what do ya do?
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IF you really want to kill your marriage, I owuld just forget everything. Last year when we were separated and she was living with om, she gave me a anniversary card. It was kind of simple like someone would give and acquantence. I dodn't think I gave her one. <P>Shortly after we attempted reconciliation after om dumped her. She only lasted a week and she was back talking with om and thats when I ended it.<P>So I guess it depends on what YOU want. I would think skipping it could mean the end or at least make her think about what you said earlier about ending it. <P>If you do send her cards, then she may think you are still hanging on. So I guess, my vote would be no cards, etc since you are intent on ending it.<P>God Bless<P>Bob
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LHC2,<P>Please pardon my language, but this sucks. It is just awful to have to give you advice like this. I'm sure in many ways you wish that the 25th was a day of celebrating love between you two, but the brick-in-the-face fact of the matter is that it is over. You were right when you wrote, "It is just another day of the year now. "<P>I'm sorry to have to tell you this, but there's the honest fact. It will be just another Saturday. If you send a card to anyone, send a care package to yourself and be extra nice to yourself that day.<P>Hugs to you, 'cuz you need 'em!<P>{{{{{{{{{{LHC2}}}}}}}}}}<P>CJ <P>------------------<BR>Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
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