Last night I tried to talk to H about attitudes. After talking a while, I realized he wasn't listening to what I was saying, so I backed off. He decided at that point to talk to me. What he did was tell me that he will do ANYTHING to HURT me! <P>Today - totally OUT OF CHARACTER - he offered to take the boys out to the lakes to see the birds/geese there. He's NEVER taken the boys to the lakes by himself. Once a couple years ago he took all of us fishing and he wasn't paying any attention and the little one fell into the ditch he'd taken us to.<P>He may be trying to change - and I'm hoping that is what's going on - but I'm very fearful and panicky right now about the safety of the boys. They are still little, and I don't know if he will watch them - or if he might be planning something to hurt me! Pray please. I'm trying to be optimistic - but I'm not feeling that way right now.

Did he actually say that he would do "anything to hurt you?" If he used those words, and if you think your kids might be in danger, I don't think you should just try to be optimistic. Is there are family member who could go out to the lakes to check on them?

already called someone - just heard - they are okay - but still at the lake...<BR>