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You haven't responded to anything written to you on your post. I guess you got what you needed. Have any of the heartfelt responses had ANY effect on you?<P>I do believe you owe it to all the BS's to respond and not be a coward.
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What a nice post - so inviting - I'm sure she will want to jump right in here...<P>
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by witness:<BR><B>I do believe you owe it to all the BS's to respond and not be a coward.</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>Witness, <P>Is she really in a position to respond? Looks to me like she rang the doorbell and ran. It's called ring and run, right out of Games People Play.<P>If we ever wanted to see an example of Dr. Harley's ideas at work, all we need to do is read the thread that Opposite Shoes posted and the responses to it. People are drawn to the things that make them feel good and are repelled by the things that make them feel bad.<P>Admittedly, I lurked. From her first post, I sensed that she wasn't looking for advice, she was looking for someone to identify with, she didn't really want help, she wanted someone to tell her she is right, someone to agree that what she is doing is somehow OK, and somehow forgivable because she is "in love".<P>By her own admission, Opposite has made some bad choices, and she continues to make bad choices. There is nothing anyone can do about it until she decides to accept the normal natural consequences of her actions, and starts listening and making better choices. <P>
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She did respond to some of the original replys but she has left now,
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Maybe she's on holiday with the married man?
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she posted this on the general questions board.<BR> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum37/HTML/006963.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum37/HTML/006963.html</A>
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