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So I have sent my H a msg today stating that I need him to sign some paperwork for the house, I did not mention I had filed, and asked him about his bank account situation...is it setup...I have heard nothing. If I call him he is not responding to my v-mail. (in the past) he is the one that wants out. and I am doing the work because we have done this 3 times now...it is old and I need closure and to move on... all communication is via e-mail...it is so easy for him...he doesn't even have to come the 3000 miles to do anything...if he never wants to see me again, he doesn't have to. <BR>also were you all served via fed ex or messenger...
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Generally service must be in-person by someone authorized to serve process. That's typically a sheriff or private process server ... unless the respondent signs a waiver of service (the gentlemanly thing to do). <P>I would be careful eliciting information from him under false pretenses. Even if the information is needed by you in order to *help* him. It just creates too many hard feelings regardless.
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So I am confused. I have not heard from my STBX after I sent him a msg regarding the house. Today I sent him a msg asking if he was there, he said he was I asked what he thought of the earlier msgs I sent, he responds and says he has not gotten them and now I resend them and he has gone silent again. What does this mean? Anyone have any experience like this? I have a call into my lawyer, I wonder if he has a lawyer, but that would denote effort on his part, and we all know he doesn't extend effort.
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