I've just got vent:<P>This is what my OW has to say to my WS:<P>"All of us, me, you and Ashley (that's me the wife) were manipulative." - excuse me, but the key word here is WIFE. This is coming someone who has told H that she's thinking of ways to hurt herself....<P>"I went on MB because I was scared you were having doubts and wanted advice as to what I should do." - you know what she wrote, did she look like she was seeking advice????<P>"I am turning to God to get back on the right road. I would love to be able to do that with you. Maybe one day you'll come back. Hopefully, we both will have our morals back by then." - HEEEELLLLOOOO! AFFAIRS = NO MORALS = TURNING AWAY FROM GOD<P>This women continues to tell him that I (the wife) will probably not give him another chance, that she's so jealous of me (she wants my life), that he needs time alone (ie away from me), that she dreams of having a family with him (again, HEEEEELLLLLLOOOO! he's got one already).<P>And my last vent.... "From here on out I am going to make sure I follow HIM. Honestly, I would like to do that with you. WE FELL TOGETHER, WE COULD ALSO RISE TOGETHER." (I'll just say one thing about this - she broke her marriage vows long before my H was in the picture - so NO they didn't fall TOGETHER)<P>How in the HE&^ does this woman think she's following God by still coveting my H? By asking him to continue to follow the path of sin????? She is such a wacky bi^%h!<P>Sorry, I needed to vent. She also SAID in the letter that she wouldn't come here again as she thinks that this led to the end of their relationship. How many of you believe her????

Not me! She sounds an awful lot like the slug... I would say the only reason the slug does not come here is because she's too dumb to figure out how to find the place.<P>terri<P>------------------<BR>terri<BR><B>Courage</B><P>Whatever course you decide upon,<BR>there is always someone to tell you<BR>that you are wrong.<P>There are always difficulties arising<BR>which tempt you to believe that your <BR>critics are right.<P>To map out a course of action <BR>and follow it to an end <BR>requires courage.<P><I>Ralph Waldo Emerson</I>

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR><B>She is such a wacky bi^%h!</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>What more is there to say?

What cracks me up is when the OW says that she is praying to God with all her heart to have the man of her dreams--like Miss Kitty did in an e-mail to my husband.<P>Like God is gonna just hand him over with a big red bow on his head and a tag that says "For you, Miss Kitty, because you have been so good!"<P>Duh!

My ex-H's OW also prayed that God would give her my H. Apparently, God was listening, cause she got him. They're married now. Seems like a good reason to be an atheist.<BR><P>------------------<BR>Blessed be.<BR>****************<BR>Keridwen<P>Keridwen_7@yahoo.com

That just kills me! NONE of this junk is about God. This is about the devil. As my aunt said, how can God let them be happy???? Maybe for a short time, but what goes around comes around....

I'm sorry, but this discussion gave me a mental image of a scene from animal house where the little kid is sitting in his room and the cheerleader flies through the window. The kid looks up and says "thank you God!"<P>Sorry.<P>I can't imagine anyone having the gall to ask god to deliver to them the spouse of another. The God I'm aquainted with wouldn't grant that request. I don't think God will let them be happy. I think they may believe that they are happy now, but I think the statistics bear out that these things usually don't last. Then they will get to experience all the pain that you have gone through.<P>------------------<BR>nick<P>it's only time that heals the pain <BR>and makes the sun come out again

Hi TTMO,<P>I e-mailed you a couple scriptures of my own that I think are worthy of posting:<P>Proverbs 5:3-6, "For the lips of an adulteress drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil; but in the end she is bitter as gall, sharp as a double-edged sword. Her feet go down to death; her steps lead straight to the grave. She gives no thought to the way of life; her paths are crooked, but she knows it not."<P>Now if that doesn't describe the typical OW perfectly, I don't know what does! The rest of Proverbs 5 is along the same lines. Also Proverbs 6:20+. Like God is going to help her break His very own commandments.<P>And Keri, just because they got married doesn't mean anything (especially to them!). They will have years of living with the concience of what they've done and it will sour them, I believe. Think about when you were young and the stuff you did then that was maybe a little on the immoral side but man you were having fun so who cared. Well, now to look back I get sickened with shame at myself and my actions back then and hate when those memories resurface. It will be the same for them. I know it's hard to keep going - I'm finding that out too even tho I thought I was SO done with him.<P>TTMO - well, the letter must not have been so sacred if he showed it to you. That's a good sign. Talk to you later.<P>------------------<P>Kathy<p>[This message has been edited by weirded out (edited January 17, 2001).]

TTMO,<BR>I assume your H isn't gonna read this thread, ok?<P>WOW.... this OW is unbelievable! Who needs tv? she can entertain A LOT !<P>Obviously she should've gone to OW web site if she needed a help like that... this is Marriagebuilders and she thought she could get help to be with a married man? SHE'S NUTS!<P>I wonder what kind of religion she practices.. it certainly isn't christian! <BR>I just remember her sil said she was too smart.. really?<P>She's still in the deep fog(is this apply to OP too?), or just plain stupid! <P>I hope she will leave you two alone, and if not consider getting a restraining order.<P>Take care!!<P>Meg