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Sometimes we post on this board at our most needy times. We are all here for support and to support each other.<P>I have noticed that sometimes the postings dont even get a reply. Not just mine others too.<P>Remember even a sentence for a reply can lift someones spirits for the rest of the day, and pull them out of a down time.<P>I am going to try and do this too. Everyone deserves support. Do we work together to reply even if it is a sentence of support or love to everyone
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RJS,<P>I hear you...I think we each post to the topics that strike a cord with us, but for people suffering from rejection and abandonment issues...a lack of response just feels like insult added to injury.<P>So, here's my response to you ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/grin.gif) <P>Lisa
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rjs,<P>I agree! I certainly have plenty of friends here in town or email friends that I could turn to for comfort, but I often come here and post my case, because if I'm going through it, chances are someone else is too--or soon will be. I'm sorry that some of your posts got by without a response, and you know what? I guarantee, it won't happen again! To be honest, I wasn't sure what to say, so next time I'll just say, "I don't know what to say, but here's a hug and my support."<P>Is that a deal, bud, or what? {{{{{rjs}}}}}<P><BR>CJ<P><P>------------------<BR>Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
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Deal...and I am right there with you...we are here to support one another.
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I think a word of encouragement to anyone is an appropriate response at any time.<P>I think sometimes we get a little too busy in our daily lives and don't take the time to offer a word of encouragement to someone who is a little down. Even if we don't have anything constructive to say, a kind word is certainly worth offering.<P>take care...<P>------------------<BR>nick<P>it's only time that heals the pain <BR>and makes the sun come out again
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hey rjs,<P>we're just about in the same timezone, when no-one else is on, I'm quite often talking to myself!!!!!! I'm in Brisbane.<P>After a year and a bit of being here, i'm used to it now. I post, and then wait 12 hours!!!!!!!!! Hard sometimes. <P>I'm usually on at about 9.30 pm - 11.30 pm here, after I finish work. It's about 4.30 am in the States at that time, so there's usually no-one on. But I use the time to reply to as many as I can. And do my own post. Then I check when I get up in the morning, and get a nice surprise.......<P>take care of you, and if there's no response for a little while, don't think we don't care. We do. But I'm going to endeavour to pick my socks up......<P>big hugs<P>Jo
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Ditto to all of the posts!!! I know that I have been here during some of the lowest times of my life.. I will say that almost always I have had my spirits lifted and there is no way that I will ever be able to repay the kindness that has been given to me by all of you during probably the most difficult time in my life.
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We are here, we are here, we are here!<P>I will try to post to everyone as well. I know I appreciated all the support I received when this happened to me almost a year ago. I can't believe that much time has passed already. Never thought I could survive this at that time.<P>
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{{{rjs}}}<P>I agree. I've come here when I am down and read posts, but just couldn't do responses cause I didn't know what to say or I didn't want my downer to spread to anyone else. This forum is full of wonderful people... I apologize for not posting replies more often.<P>Lori
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