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Just thought I would share with you that my exH's first wife left him after only two months. He claims that they were married 18 months but I think that is how long it took them to get divorced. He has "forgotten" that she left him after two months. His mom confirmed this with me. When he left me I had to beg him to take a picture of me (we were married 12 years) but he still had pictures and letters from wife #1 that he made a special effort to retrieve and take back with him to Colorado.<P>He is marrying wife #3 next weekend. I doubt that I will ever meet her until my daughter's middle school graduation or maybe not until her high school graduation. Wonder if they will still be married by then - middle school graduation is 3 yrs away.<P>I have read a lot of your posts and know that you have had a very rough time of it. Just know that you are in my thoughts and I hope that I care about what happens to you.<P>I am off on a new life for myself and my daughter - we are moving to Idaho in two weeks! I am scared and excited at the same time.<P>Nellie if you want to e-mail me please do so<P>patalp@hotmail.com
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nellie - Oops meant to say "know that I care about what happens to you" .<P>Also I don't believe that my ex has gotten over wife #1 leaving him - when she left she took just about everything. So when he decided to leave me he wanted to make sure he did not let this happen to him again - really tried to take about 50% of all the furniture/art and stuff that we had. Even wanted some of the Waterford and asked about the wedding presents - Jeez it had been 12 years - did not even remember what the wedding presents were anymore!
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Barrington,<P>I don't think my H ever got over his first wife's leaving him, either. The strangest thing was that, after he left us, when I mentioned something about that I knew he must have been hurt by her leaving, he acted like it was no big deal. When he first told me about it almost a quarter of a century ago, he did not pretend that it wasn't traumatic for him. Now he seems to have conveniently forgotten that he used to be able to feel anything.
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