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I have just moved for a job and <br>a better life for my family. My wife told me<br>shortly after that she wants to be single. I<br>was devastated. Then she wanted to get back.<br>Then no. Then yes. Then no. I am about to <br>complete my schooling for the job, and she <br>called and apologized and asked to start <br>again. She has submitted paperwork to go and <br>now it is just waiting. The hardest part is<br>working on the relationship 1000 miles away<br>and sometimes I just want to quit everything<br>so I can get my family back. And in the mean<br>time how do I improve the home-life? I feel<br>I am at the point of cracking.<p>[This message has been edited by casey (edited 01-19-99).]
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Casey,<p>You need to talk to rustynails. He's trying to maintain a relationship 500 miles away, so you could probably make him feel good.<br>You move to Ohio (my home state) for a job? It must have popped up after I left the state. There's something interesting about that feeling like you're cracking up. You can actually learn to exist in that state without falling apart. At least for a while. I can't explain it but if you've come this far you've proabably got what it takes to carry on. <br>It sounds like your absence may be what makes her want you back. In that case it could be a mistake to rush back. But I'm sure some of the folks here who are going through similar situations will weigh in on this. Just stay stable and take things a piece at a time and I think it'll work out for you. Take care.
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