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This is along the same lines as Jayhawks thread, but... How many of you have Plan A'd only to be completely shot down, moved on to Plan B, then have the WS start calling, writing, etc?? I am not sure I am ready to Plan A again, just because the tears have slowed down, my life is getting back to a dull roar. <P>How do you decide? Does love outweigh sanity? I feel like if I jump back on this ride right now, there is a good chance of me losing what is left of my sanity... <P>arm6868@yahoo.com
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One of the purposes of plab b is to let the WS feel how it is without you in thier life. If the WS is willing to take the next step to reconcile I feel we as BS are obligated to let them back in provided they follow the strict guidlines that lead to recovery...If reconciliation fails we KNOW we did everything possible to save our marriage and will have minimal rgrets.<P>Bill
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You put in plan B when you cant take plan A any more. What I read about plan b it ends up the WS that starts plan Aing you.<P>If you feel you have moved on and cant go back write down all your feelings for and against. Remember it is YOUR decision in the end.
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I have noticed the same thing. <P>When I'm plan A'ing, he runs far away, says things like "Honestly, I don't spend anytime thinking about the relationship, it's over. <P>When I Plan B, he seems to call more, wonder what I'm up to, tries to pry and see if I'm seeing someone else. Wonders why I don't want to talk to him.<P>So I guess that's it, Plan B for me from now on. Not to get the relationship back together, for my sanity. I'm tired of the ups and downs.
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