Today while at the dentist, the assistant told me she had the "pleasure" of working on my x and it would be the last time. I asked what happened?<P>SHe said x had called in over weekend with an emergency toothache and left a message for the dentist. I guess the dentist didn't get back to her soon enough, so she called back and left a nasty message for the dentist.<P>WHen she finally got to see the dentist, both she and her om/husband caused some problems. <P>The dentist told her she could take her business elsewhere.<P>Never in the almost 20 yrs I knew x, did she ever act like this. Swearing over an answering machine.<P>I guess this is what the anti-bob is teaching her.<P>

OK I am not your wife but I did get irrate once and left a really awful message. I think it was the hight of one of Tony's affairs and he was away at his family (BTW who helped him cheat a couple of times). One of my fish (koi) commited suicide. He jumped from the tank. I came home and a maintenance worker for the townhouse community had been there. I was destraught. I know a fish is not that big of a deal but just watching them swim really helped me through some really dark days. That and I really pamper my pets. <P>I was all crying and yelling wanting to know why someone would take a fish out of the tank and throw it on the floor. After telling Tony (he knows koi because he is the one raising them) that they jump and he must have wanted to jump to a bigger tank. Well I called back and left a very apologetic message. I felt like dirt for even thinking that this person would want to hurt my fish. <P>So affairs can really make you do some really crazy things. I still love all my fish and my new additions of my two persian cats. I also still feel stupid and awful for leaving that message. Before all of Tony's affairs I would have never even thought a person would want to hurt an animal know I know what humans are capable of...I really do not like it.