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#681076 01/26/01 05:00 PM
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Feeling down today and I think it is because all the little things added up this week.<P>X told me she and om/h are taking the kids to Fl for spring break. They are driving because its too expensive to fly. Funny om/h's mother flew her down before.<P>Saw x using her new married now. Also saw her initials on son's school work again with her married name initial.<P>Ran into om/h last night.<P>My bball team got our a$$ kicked on Wed nite.<BR>It looks like we won't win a game this year [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] .<P>Well the weekends here so things will pick up!!<BR>

#681077 01/26/01 05:10 PM
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HI RWD,<P>feeling a bit the same way myself......<P>Thanks for responding to me. <P>Sometimes this just stinks. I spent all of last night in tears, wondering when I was ever going to be normal again. <P>But you know what. We will get through it. I had some pretty 'scary' thoughts last night, but luckily I came through them. <BR>There is a light at the end of the tunnel, I firmly believe that.<P>Are you doing anything this weekend.? I going to try and keep myself busy.<P>take care of you, and big big and bigger hugs for you<P>Jo

#681078 01/26/01 05:15 PM
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Jo,<BR>Thanks! No big plans this weekend. I have the kids this weekend and so does my lady friend so we won't be getting together. Maybe Mon nite though!<P>My son has bball and soccer tommorrow and my d has bball at 9 am, jeesh, can't even sleep in, so I will be busy Sat. The Super Bowl is Sun nite, but I have no plans for that.<BR>

#681079 01/26/01 05:24 PM
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You get to sleep in at all???<P>My kids wake with the sparrows..... or the kookaburras, whichever starts first.<P>I think the latest sleep-in I've had for a long long time is oh, about 7.15.........<P>have fun with your kids, they'll pull you out of the funk<P>I think I'll be spending a lot of time on the 'puter this weekend. I need some wisdom injections, and you guys seem to give the best!!!<P>big hugs again<P>Jo

#681080 01/26/01 10:57 PM
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It is ok to feel down some times. We are human, we are still trying to heal. It hurts to see our ex S on their way to a new life without us. My X is doing the same thing. I also ran into them together at the mall tonight. <BR>Then my son decided to spend the night at his place and this is my weekend with the kids. But he is 16 and like to drive X's Cadilac, (I have the boreing family full size van). So I am a littel jealous, like there is a competition going on or something.<P>Hang in there! Call your lady friend for a chat, maybe that will help. LOL

#681081 01/27/01 01:46 AM
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Isn't it strange, that we are expected to be big after going through the stuff we've been through? So that they will feel comfortable in calling us again.<P>Right now, I'm feeling sorry for myself after finding out there was another woman nearly 4 1/2 years ago, being separated for 2 1/2 years, and divorced for 8 months. Maybe after all this grief and sadness, I will move up. <P>I know how you guys are feeling and I'm offering my support at any time.<P>Martha


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