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I called my STBX (wife, wayward spouse) tonight to discuss my daughter's clothes and my daughter's spring break. She didn't answer at home, but did answer her cell phone. I got the distinct impression she was with the OM. She almost giggled. It turns my stomach. She's now the evil twin of the woman I married.<P>I've been doing fine without her, but I'm just amazed at how childish she is. The very limited amount of time she spends with our daughter amazes me. Will a betrayer PLEASE do a post to help me understand what the hell she is thinking.<P>She's wack. Ah the day when I find a wonderful woman and her fantasy collapses. The joke will be on her, right?<P>Kevin
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No guarantees. Except that if you apply your standards to someone who has no interest in meeting them, you are guaranteed heartache and disappointment. Focus on your kids, and on not alienating them from her even though she's way out of line. Sorry.
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Please read all Dr. Harley's info regarding affairs and infidelity. They have helped me TONS to understand why my H is acting the way he is. I even ordered his book on surviving an affair. Even if you do not wish to be married it will help you deal with your wife during this time so the pain will be less for your daughter and you. It will help you communicate effectively with your wife and may help you with any future relationships after the marriage is over (if it gets to that point). You and your daughter are in my thoughts.
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