and she called to let me know. Got my partner and told her first.<P>I called her and she told me. She has more tests scheduled for Feb. 21. Asked her if there was anything that I could do for her. "Nope, not a thing."<P>Then she goes on to tell me that her car broke down and it will cost over $1K to fix it, so that won't be happening any time soon.<P>And to top it all off, her lawyer quit today because she has not paid him since she hired him.<P>The old me, even as late as 3 months or so ago, would have jumped into protector mode and tried to help her as much as I could. The new me could only say "I'm sorry."<P>So it looks as if things are not going so well for her. I truly am sorry for her, but have come to the realization that there is nothing I can do about it. And that makes me sad.<P>I guess this may be the make or break for her and OM. Neither one of them have had much stick-toitiveness in the past. Maybe they can learn something from this.<P>So, again, for those of you that pray, send one up to San Pedro, CA, c/o Larri.<P>Thanks

I'm sorry to hear that's happening for her. I hope "abnormal" turns out to be "caught at the earliest, best-outcome-producing moment."