Bruce,<p>I found as interesting article on how modern technology (computers and the internet especially) and how it is ruining marriages. It is in the Jan. 1999 issue of New Woman magazine. I just thought it might open your wifes eyes if she read it. It opened mine and I don't use the computer that much. <p>Anyways, I hope everything is going well for you. Fingers and toes crossed. Eyes to which will explain the typos. LOL<p>Have a great day.<p>Steph

Thanks, going to look for it.<p>[This message has been edited by GBM (edited 01-19-99).]

Steph,<p>I checked the web site and the newsstand. The Feb. issue is already out. If you know where I can find the issue you refer to let me know, and thanks.<br>Today was my wife's 40th birthday. I had not had a chance to pick up a gift during the week because we'd both had flu. And I forgot we were going out of town yesterday to her sister's. I couldn't break away from there to look for anything. <br>Of course today I was empty handed. She said nothing but I knew it wasn't overlooked. I went out to the mall and picked up a couple pair of fairly expensive ear rings. When I gave them to her she was very happy. About a half hour latter the boys went down the street to play with a friend. My wife asks if I want to go to the bedroom while they're gone. I was in shock, but, as you might guess, I recovered quickly. I think I'll buy ear rings more often.

Bruce,<p>I will get it for you. I read it at the hairdressers and I'm sure she will let me have it. I can email it to you if you would like. It was really good. And earings would have worked on me too. I'm sorry to hear that you have been sick, and I hope you are better now.<p>GBM,<p>It does talk about online affairs. It's a really good article. <p>Steph

Steph, Bruce, and some others,<p>OFF SUBJECT TOPIC<p>I haven't been able to read many posts lately, but have tried to keep up with what's going on in your situations. Anyway, as I go to the forum, I notice that alot of the post subjects are about lack of sex. I know that this is a real problem, and maybe it just hit me wrong, but is this becoming a major theme on this forum? Should I bother reading their posts, or should I just switch to another forum topic, ex. "negotiating in marriage" or one of the others? Maybe I'm just being prudish today, but I used to enjoy reading the posts, and the topics weren't just about sex. Thoughts?

Please ignore my last post! I just read a couple of the "lack of sex" posts, and I now realize what a problem it is in these people's marriages. It really enlightened me to their situations. In fact, I learned so much that I've put the baby in her crib and am waiting for my H. to come home so I can attack him! Won't he be happily suprised!

Bruce, You sly fox!<p>Earrings, huh? You mean all this time I've been buying flowers, perfume, dinners, lingerie, and the answer is EARRINGS?<p><br>You mean the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, and the way to a woman's ***** is through her ears?<p>Oh, well, ya learn something new every day!<p>Val<p>PS if somebody finds the article online, pleas post the URL. (URL? Sounds like somebody throwing up!)<p>[This message has been edited by V (edited 01-19-99).]

Terri,<br>If you could post it here, we all could read it. Otherwise, email it to me.

OK. I called my hairdresser and she found the magazine for me. I will post the article tomorrow for you all. <p>Steph