Sportsguy:<P>I posted by a separate thread the link to the Dating Again thread if you are still interested.<P>

TheStudent,<P>not magic, just an idea. At one time about a year ago, I though i was there, but not. so now i just need some people to call me offsides for mentally moving too fast, and getting excited as i got nearer a goal.<P>You are correct, and I will become more self knowledgable as i date slowly, and get more comfortable. Basically, i may be a little premature, but i see a great possibility with her, and i want to try it as slowly as possible, like once every other month, and then talk about stuff after about six months.<P>We chat on the phone, and email, etc. so just didn't want to jump the gun on romance too quickly. Hey, Im a visionary in my past life, seeing the future very easily, visualizing winning strategies in games, etc.<P>i just saw too much at once, and got overloaded, and confused.<P>thanks for your extremely good insights,<BR>TS<P>sportguy<BR>

SportsGuy,<BR>No problemo...<P>I was just thinking about that feeling I get after I've recovered from a particularly nasty bout of the flu or bronchitis (which for me, can last as long as a month) I wake up and feel like I can go run the Boston Marathon or something!! I'm walking on air for a few days, reveling in finally feeling well.<P>Going through a divorce can be like that too. After feeling so bad for so long, sometimes it is easy to get carried away. <P>You know, my grandparents got married after knowing each other for 6 weeks, and stayed married for nearly 60 years. My parents knew each other for maybe 3-4 months and got married when my mom became pregnant with me. Nearly 38 years later, they are still married too. It does happen.