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I am in a relationship that has lasted the last approximately 3 yrs. Definately full of rough spots. We took the quiz together & all he did was criticize how I feel & tell me that he takes care of my needs more than that. I care about him but am not sure that I love him anymore.Our sex life has stopped since dec/26/98. I have lost that loving feeling towrds him . He wants to try & work it out but how do you bring back a feeling that is gone like LOVE. I'm thinking of telling him it's over.. He only tries when he thinks I'll throw him out.<br>Anyone have any suggestions please have been going crazy trying to explain this to him.
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Love changes and, given a chance, grows. Just because you don't feel the same doesn't mean the love is gone. If you cut off affection, spending time together, respect and consideration, you will not "feel" love. Conversely if you choose to do these things, you can spark the love again. Dr. Harley has some great columns on how to do this and says it far better than I can.
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it's not that i have't tried being affectionate & loving it is that I no longer feel love towards him it is like he has neglected me for so long that I've given up.<br>I just know how to talk with him about any of this
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