Why? After one, two, three, sheezzzzzz! FOUR years does my xpain-n-my-butt STILL not get it?????<P> Here's the story. Been Ded for oh my word almost 5 years (or is it6?) Xh has always been able to push my buttons. He was the one who left. He was the one who dropped trou. he was the one who knocked up OW. Then he knocked her up AGAIN! We Ded. He married OW, with my blessing (take my H, PLEASE!)<P> Now, I get to freak out about once a month about the CS. Is it going to be on-time? Will it come at all? Which one of them will sign the check? Believe it or not, I have had the express joy of signing CS checks made out by OW-now-hisw. Oh, joy.<P> So, I had a talk with him last month (cs was 2 weeks late). Pls, send it on-time. No more games. Just send the fing CS on time. He says, "Okay, sorry 'bout that...having financial probs, blahblahblah." Folks, he only pays $260/month. WOOHOO! I am eating a hole in his wallet, aren't I? Of course, they just bought a new house, appliances, the kids can only wear Nikes. <P> Anyway. Tonight, he calls to talk to daughter. Asks me, did you get the check. I say, "Yes, late." He says, what's wrong? I sent it. duh. I told him that I felt he was yanking my chain...esp since I had that talk with him just last month. <P> THEN he has the nerve to say that *I* screwed him over, when daughter and I moved out of state (to SC from RI...closer to mom and my fiancee had accepted a job there). WAIT a friggin minute, here! WHO THE HADES LEFT FIRST? He didn't have much to say then. After all he abandoned us when d was 2 years old for that fing flat-faced ho-dog. <P> Okie-Dokie then. As you can see, he still gets under my skin. I am to the point of having the CS docked from his paycheck, so I won't need to do this stupid crap every friggin month. I won't even have to talk to him about it. Anyone out there with experience in the docking-of-paychecks? Info. Experiences? Good, bad?<P> I'm going to be on for a bit. Still ticked off. Geesssssssssssssssssssshhh! I can't believe how mad I can still get at this JERK!<BR> <P>Mynabird ~~ who is now feeling more like a freakin bird of prey<P> I'm sorry I am venting about this. But it really does bug the **** out of me.